Friday, March 23, 2018

This time; their time

I had the opportunity to experience a Japanese elementary graduation. It was a month ago but the memory of it still lingers like it was yesterday. The ceremony is similar in my country yet differs in many ways.


It was held in the morning and attended by all the students, the parents of the graduates, and a few selected guests old teachers and influential people. The ceremony itself was very formal from the clothes down to how everything was executed.


The students and the teachers assembled at the gymnasium followed by the parents and guests. The homeroom teachers entered and made a bow that signaled the entrance of the graduates. Everyone clapped while the 6th grade students paraded with a sharp movement. The clapping ended when everyone was seated. It’s all about conformity out of respect for others. If I were in my country, I’d probably only clap at the beginning.


It was that moment when each student was saying their dreams and some personal messages to their teachers, that I heard a sob from where the parents were seated. And then my jaw dropped when I realized that the graduates were also crying. To my surprise it was mostly the boys who were tearing. Undoubtedly it was the most emotional time for everyone.


This event that I have taken part in is one of the many experiences I would not forget. It was a little later that day when I had a moment of flashbacks. Their graduation reminded me of mine. Although it wasn’t as emotional, it made me reminisce of my time when I was marching and receiving my diploma.

Indeed, their final chapter in elementary has come to an end with happy tears, and memories they would one day look back and smile about it.